Year End 2009

I just realized I’ve not been writing this month. So many things happened in the last few weeks. Just want to share with my all dear friends…

- Went back to Semenanjung to meet my baby... Initial plan was 1week but have been extended to 3weeks. Kesian kt my dearest hubby, hidup tak terurus sepanjang 3minggu, sorang2 kt tawau..


- My father in law was admitted to DEMC, underwent minor operation to remove gall stone. Since takde org nk hantar my MIL ulang alik ke hosp, saya sebagai menantu yg baik terpaksa burn tiket flight utk jadi driver.


- Attended 2 job interview.. Alhamdulillah, everything went well. Will start working in Jan2010. 2010 here I come! Being a working mom? Can I manage the balance between work and family?


- My 10 months old baby took his first steady steps without any support.. Congrates dear! Mummy n daddy are so proud of you..


- My hubby’s new shoes had been stolen at masjid during my auntie’s wed. Baru 3 kali pakai plak tuh. Habis kene sumpah seranah dek my dearest hubby.. nasib la, sape suruh mencuri!


- Year end sales shopping! Habis lari budget bulan nieh.. isk.. isk…

refreshing...

Lately, I’ve been thinking too much about everything.. I couldn't sleep at night.. got headache.. stress... My hubby n I sent our son back to Klang. So that, my MIL will look after him while I’m seeking for a job. I’ve set my goal that I will get a job by the end of this month. But up untill now, I haven't gotten any reply or feedback from any of the company. I made a sacrifice. I gave up breast feeding, I gave up the moment with adam that I suppose to be in. But end up with nothing? What the @#$%!!! Plus, I got asked so many times, nape tak keje? tak sayang ke ade degree? tak boring ke ddk umah? Buat la bisnes ke? Damn!!! Those people just make my stress level rise to the limit...

Have you ever heard about “let go of goals”. Sounds weird right. I read about it last week. To me goal setting is very important since it will provide badly needed and direction to achieve something in our live. But, sometime no matter how hard we try, we cannot control the circumstamces of our life. Either for better or for worse…. Hurmm, acceptable… i think what the author is trying to say is; set a goal + put efford into it + tawakal + dont put to much hope on it = satisfaction.

So, last weekend i told my hubby that i need to refresh my mind. We went out for a date, watched movie, karaoke, window shopped, disturbed my hubby when he’s on his call (did things that we didn’t have chance to do since being a parents). I'm trying to let go of my goal (time to start working). I don’t care about the @#$%^&* job anymore! (klu ade rezeki tak kemana).  what I care now is to enjoy life... get rid of all the negative thoughts... my next plan; to get involved in every sport my hubby play, to celebrate new year 2010 at Mataking Island! Yeayy!!! I feel great!!

:(

Everything doesn't seem right to me...

I'm missing my little prince, Adam Harrris!

Job hunting in this small town really stressing me out!

I'm not in the mood!

Arghhhh!!!!

First Haircut

My little prince, Adam was getting a selekeh looks with all those straggly hair on the top of his head. At first, my hubby and I were reluctant to pay for a saloon when just a trim was all that required. But we were very afraid if we've screw up and Adam would end up looking like.... you know...

Before : Whether I brush or not, his hair still look the same. The curls need to be cut off...

It was so funny. As soon as we stepped into the saloon, Adam's smile did vanish. My hubby put him on his lap, praying that he will calmly go through this session. But, as the scissors touch his hair, he started to cry and kept turning his head. Punye la kelam kabut the hairdresser tuh.. I brought along a rattle to make him feel better, but it doesn't seems work. All the people in the saloon were clapping comforting him. But he still crying...(klu ikutkan hati saya nak nyanyi lagu twinkle2, Adam's favourite song.. tp malu la plak nyanyi depan org ramai)

The hairdresser did a great job..

Luckily, the hairdresser could handle the kelam kabut situation. After gone through the entire obstacle, we were amaze with his new look. Our boy was looking neat and so handsome!

 After : No more curls. "How do I look?"..

Few days after the haircut session, only I found the 'Tips for baby's first haircut' which is keep your kids busy and amused. The tricks is so simple... I should surf the web earlier to get the tips...

eating healthy?

I came across one info about ROTI CANAI and NASI LEMAK and i think good to share with all bloggers since i believe that most of us having them for breakfast...

Roti Canai...

Sebiji roti canai mengandungi kalori sama dengan 5km berjogging.

Maknanya, sekiranya kita jogging sejauh 5km, lepas tu sapu sebiji roti canai, serupalah kita tak jogging langsung. Selain dari itu, terdapat so much oil in roti canai. Nak uli tepung taruk minyak, nak canai taruk minyak, nak goreng pun taruk minyak. Dah tu, minyak tukang roti pun masuk skali (peluh mamak).

Lagi satu, jangan makan roti canai yang tukang buatnya pakai cincin sebelah kiri. paham-paham je la. Sebagai alternatif, makanlah capati. 8-10 keping capati sehari pun no problem, anda akan menjadi sihat dan kuat.

Nasi Lemak...

Nasi lemak plak kandungan santannya tinggi. So, cholesterolnya amat tinggi. Prof Ungku Aziz ditanya apakah rahsia beliau sihat fizikal & minda pada umur 85. Dia cakap dia jarang sekali makan nasi lemak seperti kebanyakan orang Malaysia.

Sebab itu kajian yang telah dibuat menunjukkan sekiranya kita mula bekerja pada umur 20 tahun dan makan roti canai atau nasi lemak setiap hari, kita mungkin hanya akan hidup sehingga umur 55 tahun.

So, the conclusion is, as many of us are approaching 30yrs old with some are already in 30's, we should be kind and gentle to our body. The least that we could do is to be moderate in everything we do and watch out on our food intake. Eat healthy food...

Hari Raya!

Hari Raya Aidilfitri is just around the corner. yeyeah!
I'm feeling soo good! haha... why? We are going to 'balik kampung' this year..
(Last year my hubby tak dpt cuti.. so sad!)

For those who will "balik Kampung" to meet beloved family,
please drive safely and have a safe journey home...

I would take this opportunity, wish to all blogger friends..
"Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri, Maaf Zahir & Batin"

hubby VS little prince...

Bole dikatakan my hubby dearest nieh hantu karoke. Dari zaman couple2 dlu sampaila skarang dh beranak satu. Xkira lah, berdua ke, berempat ke, sampai penuh satu bilik karoke pun pernah. Saya yg asalnye malu menyanyi depan public (sebab suara x sedap), pun dh hilang rase malu.

Tanpa disedari kami telah mengajar our little prince, Adam Harris pegi karoke dr dlm perut lagi. Heheh.. Bayangkanlah masa tgh sarat pun saya bole teman my hubby dearest and frens layan karoke.

“Dh besar nnt, jd penyanyi baby nieh!” Rasenye dh lebih sepuluh orang cakap camtuh. Mana taknye, tak penah2 org bawak baby pi karoke (terpaksa bwk skali sbb takde org nak jage kt umah).

Tp Adam kami ni different, lg bising, lg die suka.. klu 3 jam kitorang karoke, Adam kami bole layan tido selama 2 jam. Saya terpaksa sumbat kapas dlm telinganya. (to avoid any sound trouble).

my hubby sedang khusyu' menyanyi...

saya sedang menunggu turn nenyanyi...

sempat lagi Adam kami lena di buai mimpi...

Klu Adam nangis, pasang je la ape2 lagu, sure diam.. kalau mengantuk, my hubby dearest mainkan gitar, sure tido after 2-3 songs. Is it normal to other babies?

The Island Trip...

Last month, my parents and siblings came visiting us here in Tawau. We were so happy to have them here (kecoh satu rumah when we be surounded with my family). My little prince punye la excited, gelak jer sepanjang masa. Tetiba jer dikelilingi ramai orang. so cute...

We went  to Pulau mabul n kapalai, one of the most beautiful islands in Sabah. We took about 45minutes to get there by speedboat from jetty at Semporna. But we were in for a surprise when the tour guide told us that the ticket cost rm100 per pax. We didn’t expect it would be that expensive! Luckily my beloved father wanted to pay for the boat. So my hubby dearest only pay for the accommodation. (Fuhh, save budget!)

Looking down into the waters from the jetty, we could see lots and lots of corals and fishes! I am not a good photographer.. huhuhu...so what you see here actually looks much better in reality.

Kapalai is a great dive spot for watching many creatures. Here, the view diversity of small creatures is really incredible. We can see many backpackers came here for diving trip. But we only go for snorkeling since none of us have license to dive.

We were the only group wearing safety jacket while snorkeling.. (agak malu gak ar..)

We only been there for 2 days and have already fallen in love with the place. I will inform and advise all my mates to go there as well. By the way, thank you to Boy, our tour guide for making this a very good time. (for sure lepas ni kami datang bawak geng lain plak)

After we returned to Semporna, we went to the Restaurant at Kg.Tampi-Tampi for lunch. (here was the place that Duyung film been shoot). What a lovely place. (Puas kami mentekedarah lobster & ketam segar).

We caught the fresh lobsters and crabs by ourselves.

In 5 hours, my family would be at Tawau Airport waiting for their flight to KLIA. And the very next day, I would be at home with my little prince while my hubby dearest back to work as usual.

I really think I could cry. (sekejap sangat masa berlalu!)

At last...

At last… the buziest posting that my hubby working in is over (O&G). Skrg ni dh masuk Paediatric bole la balik kul 5:30pm.. Besh nye dady syg! Bole kite jogging tiap2 petang kn.. heheh..(body kene jage beb).

For the past few months my hubby dearest and I haven’t really got time to spend together. I thought he should take a breath.. before the tension of work pressure got creepin up his nerves to the max. So, we’re decided to spend my hubby’s 3days leave in Kota Kinabalu.. 1st family vacation nieh! Just 3 of us.

Thanks a lot to Fahmi (my hubby’s buddy) for lent us his car to jalan2 makan angin kt KK. Best sgt2.. We’ve spend our quality time with frens and 1 of my cousin. After puas jalan2, makan. Then jalan2 lagi, makan lagi…Time nieh la sume orang nak blanje.. (perut nieh, x bole nk tampung sume).. heheh.. And unpredictable things happenned...  sorry dady syg!


on top of the city (observation tower)...


my little prince, Adam Harris...

my very first blog..

This is my very 1st time posting blog to public. Before this I just wrote and kept it to myself. But its been nagging me for some time to do this, and as I watched my friends and even my cousins take the plunge, I started feeling left out. I’m figuring out where I’m gonna find a time since I’ve been busy doing mummy’s thing to my little sweetheart (konon). After all, If I don’t feel challenged I start to get bored. If they can find the time to manage it all, then so can I. I hope so…

Its been 1 year&2 month, I being married to a wonderful hubby. Now I’m a wife to my hubby dearest and a mom to my little prince. Both of them are very2 the manja and I’ve to give them both 100% attention. Luckily I’m not working at the moment, since we moved to this small town,Tawau (my hubby had been posted here). So this is my job right now, I am a manager of this family. Chewahh!! And seriously, I am very proud to be a housewife / temporary housewife (my hubby ask me to)..